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Creekside Church
Sermon of June 8, 2008

"Delusions of Adequacy"
Matthew 9:9-13,18-26
Romans 4:13-25

Rev. David Bibbee

 


My Father had a repertoire of signature sayings, some of which were aimed at me. "You're clumsier than a cub bear with boxing gloves," he said. "You'd forget your head if it wasn't attached." When company left our home he often said, "Glad you got to see me." When Dad saw something unusual he called it, "Queer as a $3 bill." There were other memorable expressions, but church is not the place to recite them.

My Grandpa Bibbee had some gems, too. "Look what the dog dragged in and the cats won't eat." Talking about people he considered lazy, he said, "He hasn't got the ambition God gave an earthworm." And when I asked for seconds of dessert, Grandma Bibbee said, "If you eat any more you'll be seeing bears with calico tails in your sleep."

But I also heard a rather dark saying that indicted people. You heard it, too. You have said it of others. God forbid, maybe someone said it to you. I have a sharp recollection of it because I didn't want the same said of me.

"He'll never amount to anything." The words carried the weight of authority. "He will, she will, you will never amount to anything." It meant, "There's no chance for change. The book is closed. The dye is cast. Redemption has just left the building. He is what he is, and there's nothing that can be done about it." I got the sense that the one saying it really didn't want the other person to change, so their judgment would be confirmed.

But let's unpack, "He'll never amount to anything" and it's next-of-kin expression, "You've got to make something of yourself."

The premise of both is this -- you are nothing. You carry a zero balance in your account. The theological premise is that you are born terribly flawed and must begin life in God's doghouse. You will remain there until you do what's necessary to work your way out. On Jefferson Street in Mishawaka there is a sign expressing this idea -- "If you don't accept Jesus, the devil will be glad to have you back."

I may be talking to someone who believes they were conceived in original sin rather than with God's original blessing. You don't believe you are worth much. But neither God nor the Bible put this idea in your head.

The world has a vested interest in making you believe you're nothing. Then you will buy into the prescription promised to change your sorry lot. You must create an identity. You must get good grades, get the right kind of friends, live in the right neighborhood, get into the best college, get a job that makes lots of money so you can drive a luxury car and buy a big house and fill it with nice things which will aid your access into circles of people who have made something of themselves so you will feel like you've made something of yourself but to remain on top you must work so hard and so long that you are totally depleted and end up where you started feeling like a nobody which means you must do more and more and so it goes and so it goes.

For several summers I took Lisa and John to Cedar Point where we stood in miles of lines waiting on rides. When it was finally our turn the guy at the gate held a painted stick beside them. If they weren't as tall as the stick, they couldn't ride.

The world has standards for "somebody status." The object is to do whatever we can however we can to measure up and get on the ride.

You may be thinking, "What's wrong with self-improvement?" Nothing. "What's wrong with doing your best, making a name for yourself, and setting a good example?" Nothing. Most of you have worked hard and reaped the rewards of success. You have made something of yourselves. Congratulations!

The trouble is, Christianity doesn't value self-improvement and success. Jesus didn't try to make something of himself. In chapter one of 1st Corinthians, Paul says:

"God chose what was low and despised in the world, even the things that are not, to bring to nothing things that are, so that no one will boast in the presence of God (1: 28-29)."

Jesus came into the world as a nobody. Somebodies were not born in stables. They didn't grow up in obscurity in insignificant places like Nazareth as Jesus did. "Since when has anything good come out of Nazareth (John 1: 46)?" people said. Jesus didn't cozy-up to people of position and power. He had nothing to do with relationships ordered by hierarchy. "Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Jesus," Paul said:

"… who, though he was in the form of God, didn't count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant… and as a human he humbled himself and became obedient unto death on a cross. (Philippians 2: 5-8)."

Jesus preferred the company of sinners to spiritual snobs. He befriended losers. He identified with nobodies. He walked into Matthew's tax office and said, "Leave your 1040's behind and follow me." Jesus drew the ire of the Pharisees because he wouldn't join their sing-a-long… "These sinners will never amount to anything." He enjoyed eating and drinking with moral, ethical, spiritual, and societal nobodies the dogs dragged in and the cats wouldn't eat.

The big issue for the Apostle Paul was how mortal, sinful, broken beings are reconciled to God. Paul was a model of devotion to the Law, but he knew that relationship with the Holy wasn't about breaking the rules.

In our text from Romans, Paul recounts the story of the patriarch, Abraham. "What shall we say about our forefather, Abraham?" he asked. "If he was justified by his works, he had nothing to boast about before God." Abraham had no land. He didn't have a home. At 100 years old he was as good as dead. He and his wife Sarah had no children and therefore no future. So how was Abraham made right with God? Not by what he did or had or earned or deserved. He had nothing to offer God-- except faith.

There are people with inordinately high estimates of themselves. They have what is called, delusions of grandeur. A man named William Kerr turned this description into an insult, as in, "David suffers from, "delusions of adequacy." We all have delusions of adequacy. We don't trust God. Our faith is so small and feeble and frail. We've heard, more times than Carter's has liver pills, that there is nothing we can do to earn or deserve the gift of God's love and eternal life. We keep trying to be adequate by effort and ingenuity. But God calls us to "snap out" of delusions of adequacy, and trust that God alone turns nobodies into somebodies by faith in God's love.

Our faith is in a peculiar God who always picks the "runt of the litter." Which one of Jesse's sons was chosen to be king? Not the oldest or strongest, but little David, the freckle-faced kid out tending the sheep. Joseph's jealous big brothers threw him in a hole and left him to die, but Joseph became one of the most influential men in Egypt. From Sarah's barren womb God created a nation. Mary had God's son. It was a barely noticed birth. Her boy subjected himself to desertion, torture, and crucifixion. For the sake of love Jesus became a nobody. He gave us his supreme gift. "Once, we were nobodies," Paul said. "Now we are somebodies-God's own people called out of the darkness and into God's marvelous, redeeming light." God delights in making something out of nothing.

In the movie, Ironweed, characters played by Jack Nicholson and Meryl Streep come across a drunk Eskimo woman lying passed-out in the snow. The two are inebriated themselves, and debate about what should be done with her. Nicholson asks, "Is she drunk or is she a bum?" Streep answers, "Just a bum. Been one all her life." "And before that?" "She was a whore in Alaska." "She hasn't been a whore all her life. What about before that?" "I dunno. Just a kid, I guess." "Well, a kid's something. It's not a bum and it's not a whore. It's something. Let's take her in."

Early on, do you suppose someone told her, "You'll never amount to anything?" Do you think that's the way everyone saw her, and she eventually believed it herself? Through the lens of God's grace no one is a nobody. Everybody is somebody created in God's image and for that reason alone should be "taken in."

We mar the image by our sin. Daily we demonstrate our imperfection, weakness, brokenness and mortality, all the while denying it by believing we are adequate and able to make ourselves acceptable. God calls us to face the delusion, but far more, God beckons us to embrace his grace.

C. S. Lewis said that God's grace calls us to accept our need so we can become "jolly beggars."

In 1895 a teacher called a boy to his desk and handed him a sealed envelope. In a stern voice he said, "Take this not and give it to your father." The boy had problems with school. He didn't pay attention. His grades were poor. Whatever the note said, he knew it wasn't good. When his father got home, he handed him the envelope. Opening it, he read the note that was a single sentence long. It read: "It does not matter what your son does-he will never amount to anything."

No one remembers the teacher. They remember the boy he declared would amount to nothing -- Albert Einstein.



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